There comes a point in your life where you stop explaining your pain to others. Not because it has started to hurt any lesser but because now you know that nobody cares. You stop telling people anymore about your feelings because you know it won’t make any difference. Reminding them about how you feel and what hurts you, doesn’t change anything. So you gradually Stop making attempts to explain your feelings and finally learn to deal with them alone and silently. And I think that’s how you become stronger when you turn into your own go-to person. You listen, understand and sort out your own shit solely by yourself. You build your own home within you and no matter how many times throughout the day you have lost hopes, you know that at the end of the day you can always return to yourself and be you again.